They are trying to get legislation passed to give rights that the Constitution deems unalienable, back to parents. I am complying with all their stuff as well. Second, try to stay positive and focus on the future. Losing a child "is a trauma that doesn't go away," says Marsha Mailick, a social scientist at the University of Wisconsin-Madison who has studied bereavement. I have moved on from that and the same in-laws are in fact the same people who gave them back to the state. Its been so hard and worse than ever because this time I have anxiety/panic attacks about losing the kids! I went through and lost. Those of us who suffer much will benefit in the end. It has now been 2 years and I was appointed a respite care giver to the other grandparents who were going to take guardianship. My children were taken in October of 2013. He will save you he saved me. God gives everyone a free will to make choices. I feel worthless and powerless and always the bad guy. . I try to maintain a positive attitude and i buy them gifts and i have gone to school to better myself i have a beautiful 3 bedroom house with just me and my man of 8 years and yet im still not able to see them or even talk to them and the gifts i buy cant have my name on them i feel so lost as to what to do, there adoptive mother has child abuse charges on her record for hurting my oldest and i still try to look past that and have a relationship with her but she does not want to talk to me or anything, please pray for me and my children i am feeling so hopeless and lately i have been feeling like i dont want to live anymore it just hurts so much all the time. but dont know if I can get enough people to sine.. does anyone eles have one going? I would be taking this information to my state legislator and to the county board of supervisors or county commissioners. The county gets social security fund money just for having you go to their services like psychological testing, counseling, parenting classes, etc so it is a financial benefit to them to have you doing these things, thinking all along that you might get the child back, even if they truly never intend to allow that to happen. The more they take from me, the less I have to lose. I just got a car and am now working. What you have is probably depressive reaction, also called "situational depression" or "adjustment disorder." This is a reaction to the shock and trauma of having your family attacked and separated. Kids dont get over knowing a parent committed suicide. I was squalling like a baby myself. It only makes to depression WAY worse my heart goes out to you and all others who are in this situation. I pray Henderson County DSS never hurts anyone like they have me again!! I hope this helps you. Its very traumatic for the child and parent. Click on Sign the petition, need info on petition i might klike to sign. You are experiencing grief and trauma. unwillingness of family or friends to continue talking about the loss. Your baby knows you and knows somethings wrong, that you love him and that hes been moved. Someone who knows this family might see it and report it to the family. Prepare for recurring grief. He twists himself around so that hes back in daddys arms. I was told by my daughters step mother that cps had plans to keep my children in contact with each other since they were separated but my daughter hasnt seen her brother in 2 years and they only love 30 miles apart. Decreased energy, fatigue, or being "slowed down". Your children will come back to you from the distant land of the enemy. Offer sincere condolence. Everytime I think about all the milestones Im missing out on, all the fun things we use to do or even just having my babies in the bed cuddled up at night it kills me. I hope you write me back!! Its hard trust me it is. ??? Pray every day that they receive him as Saviour, if they have not already (none of us know anothers heart, so keep praying), and be sure that you are saved. It suggests that we go through five distinct stages after the loss of a loved one. I had good friends who were there for me through it, and on the first Mothers Day, I found a wonderful spiritual community that embraced me and gave me a chance to shine. A senior who experiences a pet loss has an increased chance of falling into chronic depression after the death of their pet. You have to fight. But the case has been going on for so long, if the children are with their fathers now the judge will probably want to keep them in a stable place. You can trust a lawyer to advocate on your behalf and seek the best possible outcome. our Mombecause she knows how to make us feel better. It can be enough to just be physically present with the . I buy a Christmas ornament for the kids each year & hang all the ornaments on the tree. The shoe doesnt feel so well on the other foot. Some of the common mental health issues that you could be facing includes: Anger: Its common for people to feel angry and irritable when custody arrangements do not rule according to their favor. I have a house full of baby stuff and a career as a nurse that I feel I have to put on hold because mentally I cant bear to go back to work and be around other people who get to keep thier children. What Types of Construction Insurance Do You Need. Every state has different laws about how old a child must be before they can help decide where they will live. I sang back-up in a band doing punk and glam songs. My daughter is now with her father and adopted by his wife. What do I do to ease this pain. Wednesday, March 28, 2012 Losing Custody Of Child Poem, My Lost Love, My Lost Child Im so tired not only did they take children they made my husband leave the home and move out right when we left the hospital. After the Hell Ive been though Not to mention the hell my poor babies are feeling. For example, it is more and more common for a parent to cite a history of depression in their ex in an attempt to gain child custody. Jesus is the Way. Losing your faith is no justification for any suffering or struggles in life. Be the best you can be. God Bless You! However, if children are sad, irritable, or no longer enjoy things, and this occurs day after day, it may be a sign that they are suffering from major depressive disorder, commonly known as depression. Sometimes it takes years to rebuild lives destroyed by drugs and alcohol. He will always be 11 to me. Any advice? No response. Philippians 2:10 promises, That at the name of Jesus every knee should bow, of things in heaven, and things in earth, and things under the earth; Jesus said in Matthew 25, 26 And before him shall be gathered all nations: and he shall separate them one from another, as a shepherd divideth his sheep from the goats: And he shall set the sheep on his right hand, but the goats on the left. I wont go into all of it here, but make sure that you are on the right side, and pray that your children are. I find myself in depression mode at times even when I think Im ok. Go to a mental health place and tell them you have anxiety from your kids being taken and beg for their help dont stop till they help they cant refuse you. Children might be reluctant to share their true feelings for fear of hurting you. Than another knock, I was informed that due to an past history of drug use, domestic abuse, married to a felon, and un healed psychological stress issues, grief, and no job or reliable transportation. If you are not 100% positive that your eternal home is Heaven, then call me at 816-645-4152. I promise. I was shocked that children were taken from the non-abusive parent. My kids were taken because of excessive discipline. Molly is a woman of few, but very strong words. To learn more about how these cases work, please contact the Law Office of Ben Carrasco, PLLC. My milk is drying up as I avidly nursed my 9 month old. You see I used to write. No last names. I hate them I wish nothing but misery and painful illness on them..Sorry cant help how I feel they have destroyed my whole life and I just want to leave this cold and cruel world!! Call Molly Kenny today for more information. My cousin and her husband care for and love my daughter so incredibly that I feel selfish for even trying to remain her mother and get her back. I asked them for help and they did before they opened a case on me and then CPS told them to stop talking to me. There may have b. In the end, they did their damage and closed the case. I miss and need them desperately. Shes now 35 and hasnt spoken to me in about 18 years. But we will not always! I was lying in bed sobbing because my son will be turning 4 in just a couple of weeks. My only child, a precious little girl was stolen from me September of 2015 after a nasty bout of post partum depression. The courts say Ill Never get my kids back. but they did not. If I lose my kids forever, I dont think Im living They are my life! I am in arizona, over a month ago my six children were taken by cps. Our court date is set to Terminate our parental rights. Rachel weeps for her children, refusing to be comfortedfor her children are gone. Now Im facing to be a less than every other weekend dad to my 18 month old son whom Ive been the primary caretaker. Please if there is any one that can guide me I need legal representation urgently!! Instead, create a life that your children will be eager to be a part of one day. I am not that religious but I would like to think that Christ would have some sympathy for my situation. NC DSS had done an interstate compact but I dont believe it had fully gone through yet. Hello I see Im not alone my thirteen year old bipolar daughter tried to kill me and herself this past Monday and today I find out Dcfs has reached my daughter and told her they will pick her up once the 72 hour hold is up or when the doctor releases her from the psych hospital. Someday soon, my kids will find me, and know that there was never any reason for them to be kept away from me. Donald Trump might have enough money to fight it, not that he cares, but Im just trying to emphasize the amount of money it is going to take to fight this. People never believe me when I explain things they just say Im lying and cps would never do that. It has been a month and a half now. I pray that the laws will change and that the laws will allow parents a lengthier period of time to get their act together so that they can be reunited with their children. There are nine factors in all, focusing on the emotional and physical needs of the child and each parents ability to meet them. God the father says He will never me leave me Nor forsake me. Mickalyn, keep trying. Sleep may be difficult for a while. I can honestly my family didnt deserve this. Every persons experience of a custody battle is different. They are very young 1 and 6 months. Unfortunately, although depression is a relatively common health issue, those suffering from depression are often stigmatized or unfairly treated. 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