When he backs off, you back off. Really I dont mind taking it slow, knowing Im making a wise informed decision (vs falling head over heels immediately) but he also sends mixed signals. so he took it back to resize it, then we r long distance again, and u know what? Like you cant make time for me, well Im going to give you all the time in the world, like forever. 1. He says they both cheated on him. How can someone go for months without talking to you, and still care? The last time I saw him, we were like one big happy family and he had made changes in his house and room for me and then he disappeared! he drives me crazy when he just dissapear :( Im not like the typical cancer im fun,outgoing,very indepandant, and i love going out im modern.. He was always spontaneous with everyone is his life but I quite liked the spontaneity as I can be too. i found out he is still in contact with his ex!! So the easiest way will be to just disappear without warning. You have to mimic them. He will text me to death and reply one day and the next he barely comments. And let him keep whatever hobbies he has, because while you may think they are distracting from you, that are also keeping his mind active and away from scary freedom losing thoughts. Hidden in the tiring and mundane is a chance to transform your prospects in a delightful way. He enjoys getting your love messages but too many of them will make him feel suffocated. Liking you wont be that difficult for him but falling in love with you seems to be a bit harder. i think maybe he can wait to hold me and it's just all a load of bullshit!! Im supposed to be w/ him for almost a year and act like I dont care, dont have feelings, dont want more - and sleep with him? ALSO, my 4th house is also in Aquarius also, heightening my respect for Aquarius in general. You see, an Aquarian doesnt pay much attention to his emotions and he prefers that his partner does the same. Most of the reasons he pulls away have to do with mental stimulation and independence. How accurate is it? He was sleeping. It's easy to do. i know its not the beat time to meet someone this way but we did. Just dying to get in that little place! He is the first man I have spent time with since separating from my husband (who he knows really well and I sometimes wonder if this causes him a problem but then i'm probably just kidding myself!) breaks my heart? Anyone can access the link you share with no account required. And I kept thinking if I just hung in there he would let me into that secret place that seems so special. Both signs are known for their sharp minds, inquisitive nature, and love of adventure, making them an exciting match. He s unemotionally attach to me when we get our closest & things going great will even say he doesn't know if he could ever love any one. They will send txt's to you one minute saying how he can't wait to see you and the next he pulls a dissapearing act while he's dating others. While not always the case, this is fairly common for Aquarius men. He is a good guy and sometimes talks to me about everything, butall of a sudden he acts like he is not interested and this has been happening I think for four times now. I am recently starting to treat him the same way he treats me but it doesn't seem to phase him one bit. After our second date he told me he wanted to see me the day after but he might have to leave town so he was going to call me to let me know. Despite my distance, I receive updates as to their whereabouts. We were joined at the hip. we both knew gow good it was and how different but now it seems hes done hes from a broken home hates his father doesnt relate to his mother. Sometimes a few times a week, sometimes not for 6 weeks. Is there a way I can keep him on my Facebook but also do something about all this ignoring? Lol! Now he's completely ignoring me. Pegged most Aquarians on the dot. I too have met an Aquarius, 2 months, and find the lack of verbal communication insipid and ennui has set in for me. hes quite a bit younger thn me but ive dated men younger. I'm lost I want to beg and ask him why but you know how that will go. I'm a Libra. However, be careful to pick a moment when he feels comfortable sharing his emotions with you, otherwise, your conversation could be very awkward. The Aquarians research the wonderful things of life, the everyday little things that people overlook. I was under the impression that we were fine. He even told me he thought it was cool how I told him that and don't expect anything, I don't know how to take that. Pay more attention to what he does. Hence it seems they can see into your thoughts and say or do the right thing at the right time. I am a scorpio. I can play that game for a short time, but my patience is gone, and I've had enough. He values his independence and freedom above all and wont let anyone get close beyond a certain point. He recently went on a date with this girl that I have never met, but then he told me about the date and what happened two weeks after it happened. Terms and conditions | Privacy policy | About | Contact, Definitely a perfect description of what i am going through with my Friend/boyfriend who knows Aquarius. It's Sunday. How does it work? When building a relationship, focus on being a friend to him first. How accurate is it? Pretending all the time not to care. And he is questioning my friends too, which I'm having a problem with because I don't question him about his friends. How? Its his decision and he has to face the consequences of his own actions. ( I am an aries ) and my patience has been tested to a degree where I have questioned my own sanity !! An Aquarius man makes a great companion and romantic partner. My unbiased and anonymous analysis takes the gamble out of deciding what to do. I may be just paranoid about him not contacting me for more than a few days. WTH? I've been seeing an aquarius man for 7 years off and on. my (ex) aries chick dumped me n ran to a taurus bastard n we all know how stupid action it was lol.i enjoyed the show when things on her getting worse.yes aries ladies,you entertain me much.thank you :) from my experience,i disapear from the world just only when i need a time to continue build my time machine to travel to the future.since it is a secret project i dont bring anybody but just my self, I just recently realized that many of the guys I've been into/have liked me were Aquarians! WHY IS IT SO DIFFICULT? Can you tell me why he must be behaving like this?Please can you tell me what should i do & how should i go bout it? Trouble is they must surely lose so many good women. Mathew Williams was last seen on Feb. 3 in the 7400 block of Meadow Breeze Drive. :-). He Needs Personal Space. One minute they will tell you how much they love and adore you, the next minute, they are reading into everything you say and act very abrasive and cruel, kicking you out the door. I was a totally down with hanging with this very handsome man. All the good i gave his man as if i WAS his wife. The most common features of soulmate relationships. and then he bought plane ticket vacation for us, i mean he full of surprise (which is hard for me to not meltttt =.=) doh! He comes back. When he sees you have ideals that he relates to, hell fall in love. If I start to sense my Aqua guy is giving me the runaround I'm Audi 5000, no regrets. Awaitin ur reply & guidance. Best advise for scorpios is to control your temper and save that sting for the important battles. He tells me that he wants a life partner. This makes me wonder if we had a family would he abandon us? It's been a month and no word from him. Go to a movie or bowling or to his favorite food joint and just talk.Don't talk about why he hasn't been talking to you or that you've missed him, because that will just make him feel guilty and he'll want to get away from the bad feelings, but also don't make it seem like you've had too much fun while you weren't with him, because that will just make him think that you don't really like him, anyway (again, not in a mean way. Hes was my first love. This is a never ending thing. Pick a fun activity, maybe something you know he's been wanting to do, something he can't resist, even if he has been being a recluse. Almost seems like we are speaking a different language. Georgia man Nathan Millard, 42, is missing days after his wife said he traveled to Baton Rouge, Louisiana, for a work trip. His actions says otherwise like he meets me on weekends & the very fact that he's there with me & he shares all that he did thru out the day even wen I dint ask him, shows that he likes my company but again wht nxt, i.e. Drop off his radar While youre spending time apart, you need to go the distance and fully commit to it. Like A Vampire!! I agree not to ask them where they are or calling as if u r investigating on and if u do that, the aquarian man will lie to you so as not to hurt your feelings. If the content is really true , I would prefer stay away from an Aquarius then.Someone with no consistency is not at all fascinating however Mr.Einstein he is.Looks like quite a puerile to me , may be I would like to have an aqua kid , coz that would be so very fun to be with him, but never a reliable partner. So I have to stick to my guns. Just messaged 'all the best' on the days he had exams. Find out what astrology has to say about your unique partner and relationship beyond just sun signs. He has brown eyes and black hair. a woman needs love and affection. It seems that aquarians are selfish and they just figure a person should just deal with all the games and riddles just to be a part of thier lives. If you see that your Aquarius man pulls away when in love, maybe you should give him a taste of his own medicine and keep your distance. we couldnt reist the connection we kissed several times and es we had sex twice. They can get YOU, but you cant get THEM. after he purposed me?? I have been having the exact problem at the moment, I have been seeing an aquarius guy who is 10 years older than me for a while now and he has on and off started ignoring my texts and wont get back to me for 24 hours or more but when he decides to finally text back he wants to see me. He has some sort of spell on me and I don't like it at all. They are the worst men in the zodiac for relationships, so don't get caught up with one. So, if he figures out that he cant dedicate enough time to them, hell sacrifice you and your relationship and hell start pulling away. ?WTF This is after he has been hiding out at a undiclosed location saying that he need to be alone to grieve about his son,,,So I get thatbe alone, move out leave me with the rent sucked it all up, than I find out that he hasnt been alone has been hangin out with all kinds of friendsanyway he shows up last night while a very good girlfriend who showed up and I wanted her to meet him,,,they met and he acted like a total dick to herwhen she left he asked me what have you been telling her about me because she couldnt look me in the eye? However, if you continue with your neediness or clinginess, hell definitely break up with you no matter how much you mean to him. However, while its nice to have someone who wants to spend as much time with you as possible, you have to be careful not to go overboard with it. Now I'm left heart broken and have no idea where I stand. Thank you Thank you Thank you! I want someone who makes me feel good (we all deserve that don't we?) and, when he came back into the picture he'd want to pick up exactly where we left off, as though he'd never left. Remind him that you are still interesting and you are still worth studying. Hi there! I just don't like to be played with like a dame fool. He might get hurt when they feel ignored by you. They love women with whom they can have such conversations and talk to about anything. WebBecause both the Gemini man and the Aquarius woman are air signs, they have a natural affinity for intellectual stimulation, socialising, and communication. I am an Aquarius woman, I would indulge in doing my own activities and mingling with other friends so that I don't focus on the aquarian man to provide me happiness. I don't want to waste my time with no future together or hope if he doesn't seem to be in the same page. 2 weeks prior to this I showed him a letter telling him he was growing on me. it takes a while to realize you like someone, and its a good thing he left and took his time. We want the unattainable. But I am now at the point where I realize I have to be careful not to allow myself to be badly-treated (e.g. Well, I was dating an Aquarius man for three months. In my experience, it's not that us Aquariuses are displeased with you or that you did something wrong. Its actually very simple; you need to keep him guessing as much as possible. From naughty to nice, my reviews of ebooks on dating, love, sex and more. So now that I told him I feel stronger feelings towards him he seems to have dipped on me. I had to remind myself who I am and that I dont accept this from anyone. After almost a year I deserve better. I spoke with mine yesterday, if I haven't heard from him by Monday I will need to decide whether I send this txt I have drafted or just leave it and see what happens. Since I spoke to him i've spoken to a few of my Aquarius Male friends. They might try to bottle up their feelings at first but eventually, their anger will get a better hold of them. Instead, hell take his time to get to know you and once hes finally ready to confess his love for you, hell make the first move and go to you. Trust me, he will wonder why you don't seem bothered by his disappearance. I wish you the best and I KNOW, I KNOW its hard. Therefore, if your Aquarius man feels that youve become obsessed with him or that you want to spend every second with him, hell pull away even if hes in love with you. 20 Subtle Ways To Make Him Feel It. As everything he says and does indicates that he has always loved me also and still does. THE PROCESS; ABOUT US; GET NEWS! He wants to think things through before making any decision. Ive beenflirting with an Aquarius man for four months now. I think some of my questions have been answered. He doesn't seem to care. Then he wanted more. I am losing my mind actually =| HE approached ME, and adamantly. If that isn't proof of him seeing others then what is? It's kind of depressing to me, actually. The only reason we did have a conversation via text is because I contacted him but other than that I haven't heard anything. And that can be very hurtful and painful. Hes also extremely protective of his boundaries, so you really have to put in the effort to keep an Aquarius man by your side. WebFor Aquarius men, noticing your absense can have a stronger effect than if you bend over backwards trying to get into their good graces. He doesnt want a woman whos affectionate all the time, as too much attention or tenderness will scare him off. I'm reading all you both wrote and cannot believe how similar our situations are. It was a miscommunication, he took a break again. Is that what Aquarius men do?? Thing is, if he told me he doesn't it's be easier to move on. I wish I would have read this article a long time ago. To the point they watch my social sites and will admit it. i met an A 4 months ago, he asked for my phone number and called and we've been going out no sex but long stimulating conversations, meeting up once a week, him being very affectionate, me not so much, I am a sagittarius, not so fond of commitment either, then he stopped calling, i called once all seemed OK, i called again a week later he suggested we met but never called so I called another week later and asked whether he did not want me to call again and he said no why would you say that, but then he never called and when I saw them by chance I was a bit angry and said so and told them they lied to me and me and they said NO! I am an Aries, waiting for nearly a month just to see him again is going to drive me mad. Its useless to give him any restrictions or tell him he cant go out with them because hed always rather choose his pals over a relationship with you especially if you try to forbid him from hanging out with them. I would ended and be done.. He contacted me through email asked me to marry him. All of us can reach a point at which we become tired or overwhelmed by our feelings. I told him I was hurt by it, and he said he knew that I would be hurt thats why he told me. However, if you feel that youre ready for a steady relationship right now, this guy may not be the one youre looking for. This may sound counter-intuitive, especially if you He disappears which isn't really a huge deal to me because I am VERY busy these days and he kinda gets on my nerves so I need a break too lol. I've been seeing an Aquarius guy for sometime. He has brown eyes and black hair. You wont get him back if he sees you being vulnerable or helpless. He is my comfort zone, and funny. do i back off as well? so i didn't, i let him be and kept pursuing my goals, even hung out with my ex again for a few months. But he started making excuses & avoided meeting. If you listen carefully, youll hear sweet music that will inspire you. If he sees that your life is not all around him, I bet you he will make a u-turn and start chasing after you because he does not want to loose you. I found this forum and suddenly am feeling so much better that things that have been bothering me are shared by so many.. However, over the coming months we chatted. I never contacted him @ all. CONTACT US; what to do when aquarius man disappears So, make sure that youre there for him when hes feeling low and when he needs someone to share his achievements with. In fact, I'm a bit obsessed with him. One minute hes all over me, wanting to spend time, then the next time I see him, he treats me like we just met yesterday! We don't like making train wrecks, but often do it anyway. What give them the right to lie and take or even ask if you could pay a bill for them and never repay you back your money or take a christmas gift from you and leave you with nothing. i met my aquarian at work. Unless. Inbetween though we have talked on the phone and txted and this has happened more frequently just recently. For those of you who have kept going with these guys for over a year I take my hat off to you, really!! Why are there 12 signs? Youre in or your out, but unfortunately, I told him, you have lost the opportunity to make this decision as I am making it FOR you. Hi thanks for that amazing insighti was wondering if acquarious, when they realise they behaved not so nicely, if they stay away because they feel they failed and that the person wn't like them againdo they also stay away because of guilt? Your previous posts don't give me hope!! However I am starting to fall for one guy who is 2 years younger than me. So why does an Aquarius man pull away when in love? Don't read too much into what he says. I should of cued in then. You have to give him some room to miss your presence, so show him what his life would look like if you werent there to help him or comfort him when he needs you. But lately there's been a little awkwardness between us because people have been interfering a lot. But like Taylor said, If you make us feel guilty, we'll leave you. Learn more. How the hell can I have a relationship with someone who always has his sprinting shoes on, & eying the door, if I unbalance his correct amount of romance/love/affection that makes him feel 'free'? He never acted like it. This behavior makes me a little tired because he is 32! He started a new work project and then started to disappear for a week at a time. I guess this is how people feel about me haha! never answers phone. A lot of people even asked if we were dating each other. He will still disappear, in typical Aquarius man fashion. 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