She's 381 now; her goal was 375, but when she was 365, she moved her goal to 400. Gain together - mutual gaining is great you get to point out where he is getting fat and needs to size up - poke poke - and he gets to see your belly rolls! Can you touch each other more (gross sentence, sorry)? I also have this fantasy about her being with a young, hard, fit man with a big p****, which I have shared with her and which is she game for - carefully, of course, it's just talk, now. Youll find that this will help put 25+ pounds on your hubby as you start your married life and then you can increase his portion size to get another 25 pounds on him by your first anniversary. Watching someone gain weight and move from size to size is alluring. I just love seeing someone have little control of some aspect of their lives. His messed-up mind tells him, "Nobody will want a fat . It feels so good, I can't describe it.Some of my friends and my doctor have been concerned, I mean, it's hard not to notice but we stay active with walks and hikes. Both my x was bbw.After my divorce I found thick girlfriend not yet bbw. The next time a "gift-giving holiday" rolls around, buy him a gym membership. When we start dating we share gym sessions, but after the wedding he was getting lazy and said me so often that he must work at home or so on. What size were you when you met each other? I'm surprise that child services has not removed your children from your care. His legs and arms are still quite lean. I'm 24, and i got married to my husband when I was 20. She might be happy if you tell her you dont care if shes skinny. Ladies, its not the worst thing to have a bigger guy in your life. Fat but not "holy s***" fat like she is now. and our Two years later, we have both put on weight. My friend even asked if I was pregnant (it didn't help that my gf stuffed me silly with a massive breakfast that morning and I could barely stand afterwards) Since deciding to gain my belly has almost tripled in size and my t*** are up to H cups, not to mention my ass takes up so much space now. But more skinny than fat. My wife isn't quite as heavy as yours. I feel very, very shameful and bad. Me married to a fat lazy guy. His face isn't hard on the eyes either. The same could be asked of thin people and some of the toxic culture and expectations around always being extremely in shape. Oh, I'm average height (5 ft 7). Dr. Gilda says: As is the case of many long marrieds, the two of you have gotten into some sloppy physical habits. How do you get around that? Have fun! I could do with some now actually! The moobs were first. I dont see as many people because of the pandemic, so mainly just like my mom or sister. But unless you know me really well, its not super noticeable. He's not depressed or angry or bitter -- he just makes these comments here and there. 98 pounds. You are allowed to feel this way. She's gonna have to lift my belly though if she wants me. I love to show my fat wife off to all the skinny b******. Best of luck! They speak longingly about how fit their husbands were when they first met them and how unfit they are now. Health is not moral. Right on, Im 32 and was raised in a big fat family who enjoys their food and it shows. I thought to myself, f uck that, I gots preggo, now I's gonna really enjoy and pork out. A pregnant belly is so sexy. The Student Room and The Uni Guide are both part of The Student Room Group. Having an obscenely fat gorgeous wife is truely one of life's extreme pleasures. Its not always bad to be heavier. Too bad she doesn't want any more kids! Shell order a big dish herself then casually slide her remaining portion my way. So I've embraced being fat and I love my husband a lot i don't want him to look elsewhere . S** just keeps getting better each year, and she has said she doesn't plan to change her eating habits until she's 500. Me, myself and I. Im the same way. I have been dating this guy for over 2 years now. 9. By rejecting non-essential cookies, Reddit may still use certain cookies to ensure the proper functionality of our platform. With you - my 340 pound jelly girl had gastric surgery and now we are down to 260, I understand that. I should be able to push her way up over 600lbs in the next year. I want to be a My husband is getting fat and I love it! Her fatter friends just was always snacking. My ever-fattening belly is a testimony of how well I clean my plate and often get additional helpings so the food is not wasted. Later she will humiliate me for the pig I have become while loving the control she has over my feeding weakness. :). Met my wife 8 years ago at curvy 180lbs.She's put on over 200lbs in the years since and I love it. So if the doctor has said that your husband has obesity health risks and you didnt fully understand what they mean by skinny fat, now you know why. At no point in that decade-long . Theyre super sensitive and we had never talked about it because I pretty much try and cover them up. Enjoy what you have! She gained weight and I was all over her. Let me tell you, she pigged out and gained a whopping 85 pounds. I used to suffer from anorexia about 10 years ago. Yes, looking good is definitely important, but whats more important is to be healthy and have a long life. My wife loves to serve me a massive portion,casually mentioning that I do not have to eat it all. That's good to hear. As far as you know right now, hes worth it and the relationship is worth it. Finding a feedee that is completely comfortable with gaining huge amounts of weight is a rare thing indeed. Eat everything in sight and enjoy watching your belly rolls expand. I'd been broken up with my on-and-off boyfriend of five years for about three months when I agreed to meet him for dinner. When I graduated from high school I was 135 pounds. Anxious to hit 300 and then on to 350. I love how watching a successful business person grow wider and wider. So its not a lack of honesty, its just that shes not ready to talk about it and Im respecting that. I spent enough time growing it! . The only things that fat bodies are guaranteed are: 1. having to wear bigger clothing, 2. being heavier than a thin person their size and 3. dealing with a bunch of bullshit from fatphobes. Its not you can be , its you are unhealthy when you are fat. It could also happen if youve never done much strength training to produce muscle growth, you dont eat enough protein-enriched foods, or you have been in a calorie deficit for too long by burning more calories than you are taking in. What is a healthy body weight for you as an individual. My favorite part is when my wife is winded on the stairs and needs to stop to catch her breath. About a year later we got married, and she was around 225. Yes, After she started putting on some weight, she made a few comments about getting too fat, and I told her that I prefered her that way, so she just stopped worrying about her weight. I write about; Fat people, Im fat, and I'm tired of being fat, what has worked for me to lose weight, the things I've learned about how hard it is, and the problems with that. Not only does it look horrible and holds you back in business, what about diabetes or heart attacks??? Only a few people have noticed so far. Saying words like "fat and ugly, or fat and lazy" may be a bit harsh, but the truth is, we really do want to be attracted to our partners. Well, if you dont mind how he physically looks or feels (although part of you sounds jealous because you have stayed in shape for him), then I would suggest telling him that he is still attractive and you dont mind his extra weight, but that you want him to start trying to be more active and healthy (not necessarily lose weight) and say you can work on it together. Trans fat, alcohol, added sugar and fried foods are linked to fatty liver disease. now the simple sight of her naked huge body turns me on so much it drives me nuts! My life is sooo ******* sad, ask me anything. Often what attracts us to people is how engaged they are, how ambitious they are, or what they do without us. My wife has been more aggressive in her encouragement of me eating. There is nothing better than being able to eat whatever you want and get as fat as you want and your partner adores the fat on you! Otherwise, if its a preference about their hair being another color or length, if its whether they look better with makeup on, if its about what they do with their pubes, whether they get plastic surgery, whiten their teeth, or dress like its 1987, I implore everyone to keep their negative thoughts to themselves. It's a total 180, and I can't fully grasp this new attraction I have. What makes you feel good in your body, confident, and happy. Hell finally figure out that you want to get fatter and fatter and hell encourage you! . This 250 lb tub is already gaining. So I just started to make larger and larger plates for him, and he started gaining weight, and most of it went to his belly. So I recently asked my husband that if he could choose what weight I could be, what would he choose (Im 55 and WAS about 125 pounds). But Danny, 46, is no longer the lean, dark, handsome type she fell for. He's grown out of some of his clothes, he's got a noticeable double chin, he has a round belly, chubby cheeks, even his chest is softening up. She hasnt said too much. I couldn't believe that was the guy I was about to sleep with. As a fat woman myself, I'm still struggling with how I feel about it. By subscribing to this BDG newsletter, you agree to our. Do you think it's cute, if he has lost inches? And raising my beautiful girls the same way. But hes far less active than he used to be and hes grown out of all his clothes while Ive managed to stay in pretty good shape. Plus, people have divorced for far, far less. Feeling that my pants dont fit anymore is a turn on. My favorite part is how now (when I'm fully stuffed), my belly blocks her head from view when she's going down on me. I love her. Now I'm a size 24 slacks and 3x top. There are all kinds of things that make up our attraction to a person, including our own state of mind. Sounds like you want to leave her sorry to hear. At 31, I've been in a couple of long-term relationships before. This is a very sexy post! My husband will eat anything, and if I put it in front of him, he will finish it. My wife is almost 600lbs, her sister is easily over 400 and her mom is the same as well. She's really putting away the chocolates, cakes, pies, Oreos, and ice cream. He used to run, but now he hardly exercises at all, he barely even walks the dog (it's his dog and now I do almost all of the walking). Assistir Fulham X Leeds - Ao Vivo Grtis HD sem travar, sem anncios. I think you have to ask yourself what you are comfortable with and determine how you feel about it first. The good news about this is that even though youre less attracted to your boyfriend right now (fine, valid, morally neutral), there is opportunity for that to change, for your attraction to him to grow again. Iam happy with my weight. My wife has gained 30-40 pounds during this pandemic, and I love it! And yeah I love it when it happens to me. My husband is getting fat. She was 275 now 180. Startle him into a state of frenzy with, "Shit, babe! I fretted over that but he said he preferred by fatter and encouraged me to just eat what i want and so i did, which was really liberating for me. But she still seems to love it, too. Deniz Valiantis, who goes by the username @missdvaliantis on . How have your friends and family reacted? One time, I was on top and she started sucking one and I moaned. Her OB was alarmed! It's a great sense of freedom and comfort when you realize you're a growing tub of lard with a massive ball gut. He wants to keep you for himself - He is obsessed with you and wants to ensure that you stay with him forever. I want to learn some, Ive never been fatter and my wife has never been happier. Working out is when I feel the difference the most. Its just part of life. Well, a year ago, I gots preggo, and the doctor's like, I gots to loose weight, cuz I was like 320 pounds and He says its gonna be a prob for the pregancy. My ssbbw wife is about 380lbs and was supposed to lose 100 lbs for our daughters wedding but gained 50 lbs instead! She seemed so confused with how Fat I became and continued to grow she didnt even seem to mind that she was now the heaviest she had ever been as well. He's not overly muscular, but he's lean and sculpted. I know my wife, who loves to eat too much to worry about how fat she is or will become, really started to pack on the pounds after she became friends with a coworker who is even fatter the she is. I havent been a pig about it. Do I Need To Tell Him I Cheated? If you try again and he continues to be defensive about this or wont take any steps to care for himself, then, OK, you have a new problem. Brian was the type of guy I spent most . Curlybig5000 at yahoo.com. Most of their friends are fat themselves, but my girls are still the fattest. The way shes been over serving me over the holidays, I definitely got that hint! Same here. Over the four years we've been married, she has completely ballooned, weighing 245 or so after year 1, then 260 year 2, 280-290 year 3, and so far this year, she's really piling on the pounds. I said I didn't want her to have it that she looked beautiful. He has stopped doing things he previously loved or at least liked. There are trade offs he needs to understand. There also may come a time when you express to him that your attraction level isnt what it was before I wouldnt do this right away, because that seems like a lot of pressure. There is only one issue that has become increasingly difficult to deal with: he is rapidly gaining weight. He stepped on the scale the other day and he has gained 50 pounds! Oh yes. There are many different types of pill and many other forms of contraceptive, and even the Practice Nurse will be willing to give you advice on what may be better for you. How would I say anything? As mentioned before, many people can look skinny, but that doesnt mean they are skinny in a healthy way because of sarcopenic obesity. This time, if the subject comes up about weight, I just pat my belly and own the moment. Nothing like 200 pounds of jiggly fat to announce TAKEN!. I'm now close to 300 pounds. He had his shirt off last night, and WOW, what a pot belly. By the way I should admit that I like how he looks and the security that he shows in himself. She gave birth to a 10 pound baby and she lost maybe around 15 with the birth but started gaining again shortly after. Tell him you want him bigger. They said they wanted to keep me from developing health issues as I grew older. This one is different. 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